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Welcome To Spank 'Em Safe

Where kids are spanked...
NOT abused!
Spank 'Em Safe is a website devoted to spanking kids safely for misbehavior. I used to have a website with the same idea, at Geocities, which I unfortunetly had to close. So this site is still pretty new, and I'll do my best to add more.
With What?
The first question I will address, is...What should a child be spanked with? In my personal opinion it depends on the age of the child, though I know it is unique to each situation. I, myself, was spanked with the hand until I reached my teen years. On my thirteenth birthday, my mother presented me with a strangely shaped package. I opened it to find a wooden Ping-Pong paddle. On it was painted:
Becca's Very Own Spanking Paddle.
My mother insisted it hang in my room until I moved out.
I'm not saying that this is what you should do with your children. In fact, I am more partial to using the hand throughout a child's life. I don't feel a paddle is necessary. But, each situation is unique. I do NOT recommend using anything harsher than a paddle. Strappings and canings are far too severe and are not necessary. 		Bare Bottomed?
One of the biggest questions in spanking is, Should we bare our children's bottoms? Personally, I think most children today need a good sound bare bottomed spanking for their misbehavior. I know my three girls often do. There are many problems to spanking through clothes. First of all, through denim jeans, a child will barely feel your hand. You will need to use a hairbrush, which I feel is too harsh. Also, the severity of the spanking depends on whatever the child happens to be wearing, which is not very good. Parent's can also see the severity of their spankings. However, some parents might be uncomfortable taking down a child's underwear. Spanking through the underwear is almost as effective as barebottomed. The thin material provides much less protection, and the child will be subject to the same amount of pain.

What Position?
What position should a child be spanked in?

My personal preference is over the knee (OTK). It usually works best if you are sitting in an armless chair. The child is taken and bent over your thighs, so their bottom is facing you. I prefer higher chairs because the child's legs and arms can't reach the floor, streching their skin and tenderizing it for a spanking. However,when a child is in bed, the diaper position is best. Firmly grasp the child's legs with one hand and hold them up. Then with the other hand spank. I know there are many other positions, but these are the only one's I feel appropiate.

Spanking Teenagers
Spanking teenagers is a very controversial issue. It is rather hard to talk about without offending someone. But my personal opinion is that, though spankings should lessen as a teen gets older, the threat should still be there, and the occasional spanking should be all right.

Email Me
I am trying to add a reader's feedback part of this website. Whether you agree with me or not, please email me and tell me! If you just want to talk about some of the issues presented here, email me, and I'll respond!
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